I
am so blessed to have a great deal of time with my three young children. From my years of teaching ages birth through
8th grade, I have really come to value
the foundation that children receive from their parents at home. I have always known the importance of this,
yet didn’t know what that looked like. I
suppose I felt that it would just happen, but it didn’t.
One
day I was praying. I was thanking God
for this time I have with my son and daughter before they reach school
age. But in my heart of hearts, I didn’t
really know what to do with this time. I
felt like most of my interaction with them was just regulating their behavior
and trying to get them to let me get my household work done. I handled things as they came up. I planned very little. As I reflected on our time together, phrases
I spent most of the day saying came echoing back. “Don’t eat that, get off your sister, wait,
I’m busy right now.” And then it hit
me, is this really the foundation I want for my kids? True, it is life, but can there be more? Is this all they need to learn during these
tender, impressionable years? I realized I may be losing these precious times when they are eager
to learn and eager to be with me. Doing
nothing, doesn’t work.
So
the next thought was what is MOST important for them to get out of these
years.
Coming up with activities and ways to teach my kids proved to be
too difficult unless it was done BEFORE I needed it. So, I pulled out my son’s Children’s Bible
that we had been reading every night before bed. Though he loved to listen to the stories, I
was not sure he was retaining or understanding them. My son is an active boy. He will sit to color but be finished in 25
seconds flat. He prefers to move around,
and he learns more when he can. He wants
to run, jump, play, and get messy. At
this point developmentally, that is just fine. I decided to play
to his strengths in order to teach him. Throughout the next year I spent much of my
time planning “Bible Time.” God was so
gracious and poured ideas into me to teach His word. It was so obviously God’s creativity, not
mine. He gave me ideas that were short,
easy, and quick to prepare.
My
kids love it! They like the routine that
we have of doing “Bible Time” every day.
They love doing different activities every day. And they love telling other family members
about it. My prayer is that God will use some of these ideas in the lives of you and your children. May you and your children “grow in the grace and
knowledge of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever” (2
Peter
E-mail me at sunshinemanagan@hotmail.com